“ Watch your thoughts, they become your words; watch your words, they become your actions; watch your actions, they become your habits; watch your habits, they become your character; watch your character, it becomes your destiny.”
― Lao Tzu
Cords are made of energy. They connect people energy bodies and transfer emotional energy between them through and beyond space and time.
Positive, healthy cords are those of love and affection, support and they nourish your soul. They yield positive, mood-enhancing effects – inspiration, spiritual uplift, and optimism. If you walk away from an interaction with someone feeling happy, upbeat or supported, then you can be sure a healthy energetic cord was created.
In contrast, negative cords leave you feeling drained, emotionally exhausted, and depleted. Negative cording can be done maliciously from one person to other, whereby they are also created unknowingly. They come from people who don’t realize they are doing it. People who tell themselves they “want your best”, ex partners and lovers, family members, friends, people who are depressed or struggling, feeling lost or alone, or people who want to dominate and control you, or simply unconsciously find themselves attracted to your light, like bugs to a lantern, attracted to an energetic richness that they somehow are in need of and cannot provide for themselves.
Cord removal can help you separate yourself from old baggage, unnecessary attachments, and release you from connections that are no longer serving you.
It can bring the necessary detachment in order to see things for what they really are, without being influenced by the energetic charge of the cord. It can stop the recurrent negative patterns from the past to continue.
Some of the most common negative energy cords in relationships can be found attached to the main energetic points . They normally generate from the negative shadow self of the person projecting them into you, so, they are not necessarily bad people, just not seldom aware of how energy works.
Here they are some very general meanings of relationships negative cords:
1. Root Chakra :
A cord found in the Root Chakra signals that someone wants you to materially take care of them and their energy is lacking the physical health, being with "ones feet on the ground", stability, stillness that your root chakra can offer strength. A lover can place here a co-dependency cord.
2. Sexual Chakra :
A cord found in the Sexual Chakra signals that someone wants you to be felt, have your sympathy and emotional alignment with their emotions, seek your creative life force, your ability to feel the pleasures of life and experience a childlike playful joy.
3. Solar Plexus Chakra :
A cord found in the Solar Plexus Chakra signals that someone wants your energy as a charge to theirs to function in a healthier way, they seek to dominate you, to compete with you, to manipulate you towards their ends, to shine of your light, absorb your risks taking courage and personal power. They may also be lacking of the spontaneity, the strong will and confidence your energy offers.
4. Heart Chakra:
A cord found in the Heart Chakra signals that someone wants to be loved and approved by you, and/or would like to express their feelings for you and has difficulties in relating. They may experience a wide range of different states, from jealousy, lack of empathy, being a martyr, intolerance to being overly critical and closed off and thus charging the energetic cord.
5. Throat Chakra :
A cord found in the Throat Chakra signals that someone needs to communicate with you, or have difficulties in telling the truth to you as well as to themselves. They are trying to control your way of expression, as they feel trapped in their difficulty to take control of their own lives. They may also secretly talk behind your back and gossip around to manipulate the truth about matters concerning you.
6. Brow Chakra :
A cord found in the Brow Chakra signals that someone wants to be in your thoughts, wants to impose you their views about themselves and their reality. They are normally obsessed about you, in denial, insensitive, rigid in their prejudices, and/or mistaking their illusions for real intuition. They try to tap into your intuitive and insight abilities.
7. Crown Chakra :
A cord found in the Crown Chakra signals that someone wants to control you, manipulate your thought processes and core values. They may have a spiritual confusion, over-intellectualizing, bypassing spiritual truth creating a distortion in their mind and disconnection from their higher wisdom; they may also suffer from dogmatism and/or apathy. They try to tap into your ability to connect to the higher spiritual planes, your mastery and wisdom, your intelligence, open-mindedness, ability to see /analise the bigger picture and learn your soul lessons.
8. Hand Chakra / Wrists:
A cord found in the hand chakras, or around your wrists, signals that someone wants you to do things their way, to do things for them, to block your creativity.
9. Foot Chakra/Ankles :
A cord found in the Foot Chakras, or around your ankles, signals that someone wants to fall, not succeed on your path, not walking your path but theirs.
During a cord removal session, I will guide you to be aware of which negative connection it is time to cleanse the effect from your energy bodies, the negative cords placement and emotional-psychological-behavioral charge, the awareness of how you have contributed to the co-creation of a negative cord and how it has affected your life, the restitution of what does not energetically belong to you and vice versa.
In my personal experience, removing cords that are draining people energy reserve and clouding their discernment, helps them to realize that much of their emotional suffering, for example, was due to their picking on the negative feelings and thoughts of others. It is natural that we open ourselves up to other people, and that because of our affection we would like to help the people we love, or others, but sometimes the exchange is unfair and unbalanced and we risk assuming their loads without knowing it and without being responsible for dealing with other people issues. This has also an energetic effect.
Empathy is not sympathy.
I have also witnessed people finding a better understanding and peace in their relationship once the cord created by their personal issues was removed. I also witnessed cords removed between people and their loved ones who have passed away but that remained and continued to affect them with the unsolved issues of the past. In most cases, an energy recovery and a clarity of mind is regained or acquired after a cord removal session. Most of the time, personal prejudices or projections onto another person create powerful negative cords which drain mostly the prejudiced person in the effort to reinforce the disharmonious mental constructs.
Cord removal requires taking personal responsibility for our actions and working on changing negative behavioral patterns and thought processes in order to keep a healthy balance between giving and receiving; to respect boundaries, personal and others at all levels; to honor and appreciate everyone individual path and uniqueness, to honor truth and to come back to your centre.